To touch a person...to sleep with a person...is to become a pioneer, " she whispered then, "a frontiersman at the edge of their private world, the strange, incomprehensible world of their interior, filled with customs you could never imitate, a language which sounds like your own but is really totally foreign, knowable only to them. Catherynne M. Valente
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The idea that you can understand someone completely is a misconception. To truly understand someone you must leave your own language and customs behind and be able to quickly pick up theirs. In order to truly understand someone, if they are willing to let it happen, you must listen to them speak about their innermost thoughts. The language of a person's dreams is a language that only they can understand which is why it is called their private language.

Source: Palimpsest

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